Several years ago, Warren Farrell published The Boy Crisis, which documented the negative life outcomes for kids who grew up without an actively engaged dad. From it, I noted the causal link between dad deprivation and a broad range of public policy issues like criminality, gun violence, terrorism, mass shootings, poverty, child abuse, mental illness, suicide, drug abuse, welfare dependency, education failure, and health problems. I am just saying a little common-sense single mom control could solve a lot of expensive problems.

This week on X the sex war in politics focused for a moment on Fresh unintentionally putting a bun in the oven.

For those wise enough to not know, Fresh (Walter Weekes) is part of a podcasting duo called Fresh & Fit. Their stick is to bring many Miami party girls, Instagram thots, and OnlyFans sex workers on their show where the guys neg them and explain to the girls why women are awful and dumb. On the Fresh & Fit podcast, what is best in life for a man in current year is to have sex with many women without commitment. While media types and commentators incorrectly label them as Red Pill, it is accurate to call them pickup artists or dating coaches who seek to profit by teaching men how to get chicks. Reportedly for Fresh & Fit that includes in practice propositioning their show’s guests and paying prostitutes. Basically Fresh & Fit are low self-esteem posers who convince too many women to have sex with them.

That is not exactly news as this diagnosis of them is years old. However, audio of a conversation has been made public between Fresh and Daisy Chen claiming to be pregnant by him. Maybe he is the daddy, but he should ask Maury because a third of paternity tests are negative. In the recording, Fresh tells her to get an abortion. When he isn’t offering marriage, she goes for the bag by threatening him with child support, then she immediately put him on blast.

While this should be a private matter between Fresh and his reported baby momma, it is of political significance because of child support in the courts, welfare for irresponsible single mothers, and the public debate over abortion. Meanwhile the usual collection of women (feminists, trad wives, and trad-influencer single moms) are using Fresh’s failures as a man to dismiss the legitimacy of all complaints that men have about legal issues related to heterosexual relationships in current year (see Cassie Jaye’s documentary “The Red Pill”).

Most importantly for the young guys, let me start with a safety briefing (HT: Terrence Popp of Redonkulas). Guys, don’t have sex with a woman who you don’t intend to have a family with; not because “God” says so but because women tend to be untrustworthy, especially related to contraception such as putting holes in your condom or sperm jacking your man juice from a condom in the trash. That said if your biological urge compels you to work on your stroke game, don’t be a fool and wrap your tool then destroy the biological material before she can steal it. The life you save will be your own so be selfish.

Next let’s deal with a point that is more controversial than abortion: this unwanted pregnancy is her fault based on her bad judgement in a lover. She let a promiscuous braggart, who was having sex with four other women at the same time, raw dog her. Despite his public statement about his financial success, in the recording, Fresh tells her that he is broke so she shouldn’t expect any child support. If he doesn’t pay for her bad judgement, then the taxpayers may be stuck funding her bastard. In a polity where a woman’s bad judgement is subsidized by others, only a fool would be surprised that female bad judgement proliferates. Note that as soon as he rejected her child by telling her to abort it, she opted to call on the surrogate violence of the court and police to force him to pay her. If Fresh is broke, how long before she uses the government to pick the pocket of every man in our country through welfare?

This later point may be complicated as she is Chinese in the US on a tourist visa. Did she just make herself an anchor baby for public benefits and to become a legal immigrant? Is baby trap tourism to the US going to become a thing? Such is speculative but is referenced to highlight how our broken immigration system also potentially impacts what should be a private matter between Fresh & the self-proclaimed baby momma.

Finally let’s address abortion. In the audio, he tells her he doesn’t want a kid so she should see the doctor for an abortion pill. They do not agree about an abortion, but his opinion doesn’t matter as she has legally baby trapped him with only her judgement now deciding. Fresh isn’t a victim but allegedly a fool who allowed himself to be trapped; such short-term thinking has consequences. I am not talking about what should be, but what is.

Anti-abortion women are dancing on the grave of Fresh’s future because his reported baby mama isn’t going to abort but will try to stick it to him financially. While abortion is legal and should be legal, woman too often choose abortion for immoral reasons, which in the long term often cause those women future guilt and emotional distress. As Fresh’s reported baby momma appears to have gotten pregnant on purpose thinking that it would lead to marriage, her choosing not to abort the embryo is morally responsible. Without an involved dad in that child’s life, hopefully she will consider adoption as in the child’s best interest.

The big picture of this private situation is that bad parental choices have long term public policy consequences. Public policies that we have in place are broken for child support, child custody, welfare, adoption, and foster care as they do not work to protect the best interest of affected kids. These areas require reform, but our useless politicians evade these problems and their negative impact on kids. Hopefully Fresh’s alleged kid likely to be raised by a single mom doesn’t grow up to carjack you.

Acknowledgement: YT character & comedian Undead Chronic’s review of the facts of Fresh’s reportedly weak pullout game informed me of the relevant details.

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